what's your savage muse archetype?

unlock the answer to your erotic leadership & surrender in less than five minutes with this quiz

the hybrid program for dangerous women ready to claim their full erotic authority. now.

a multidisciplinary education in the art of feminine dominance and empowered surrender.

ONLINE PROGRAM BEGINS | October 1st |

irl in London : saturdays 11-5 pm | october 19th | november 2nd | november 16th

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*for the woman who knows.

the most powerful woman  in  thE  room

is the  most relaxed  woman  in the room

the most confident woman in the room is the most erotic woman in the room.

WALK INTO THE ROOM LIKE

ThE GODDESS SENT YoU

dangerous woman

is a woman who can not be controlled. she’s an inconvenience to the system that wants her obsessed with being chosen 

because she’s claimed herself.

she doesn’t wait for inspiration because she’s become her own muse instead. 

a dangerous woman is a woman who can not be manipulated because she trusts her gut.

an unreasonable woman so turned-on by her life she dispels doubt & turns her visions into reality without apology.

she is a feral flickering flame and cannot be tamed.

A

a dangerous woman is an agile woman able to ride the beast of her erotic authority

directing its wild force with agency to receive all that she is worthy of and ready for.

trained in the power of surrender to the throbbing edge of life

satiated and savoring everything

from pleasure to pain in ecstatic erotic rapture

you can not tame such a woman she is so in touch with herself

she is an instrument of validation in love with her own erotic wilderness

she knows how to please herself and let life please her. fully.

If we don’t have brave and clear

containers and skills for enacting

the dynamics of predator & prey -

we will prey on each other.

he two faces of power

these dynamics of power - the savage and the satiated - are ancient.

our physiology emerged at a time when hunting was foundational to humans. our ancestors were directly connected to something greater through the visceral enactment o life & death cycles in the hunt.

this somatic pattern is still integral to the human experience. it is the food cycle- as the basis of life. everything eats and is eaten.

the two postures of power: predator and prey.

controller and controlled. ignition and surrender. stepping up and melting into. agility in both makes up unified power.

T

power is in directing the forces of the universe. power is in being at its mercy and surrendering.

this is important, because;- bliss does not come from feeling safe and good.

bliss comes from paradox.

having reverence for this is what makes it life-enhancing.

basic somatic patterns literally need to be lived out.

if we don’t have brave and clear containers and skills for enacting the dynamics of predator & prey - we will prey on each other.

enter savage muse.
power meets sovereignty.

    • your daddy issues keep you obsessed with being chosen.

    • you ache to feel turned on and consistently lit the fuck up to create.

    • you’re a bad-bitch in the streets but you freeze inbetween the sheets.

    • you’re an expert in pretending to be sexually satisfied by men.

    • you trust your heart but you daren’t trust your mouth enough to speak in public.

    • you’re good at what you do but you want to be iconic in everything you do.

    • you’ve never had orgasms without making them happen.

    • you avoid conflict even though you know it’s where spiritual nectar lies.

    • you’re great at being in flow but have no real clue how to domme your life.

    • you’re open hearted and feminine as hell, yet your boundaries are total trash.

    • you haven’t a clue how to seduce someone irl so you just slide into their dm’s.

    • you crave an embodied crew of women who are unafraid of all of you.

    • you can’t remember the last time you were seriously fucked wide open. 

    • you’re tired af with waiting to be chosen by a man and/or by life itself. 

    • you know there’s more to your erotic experience.

    • you want a life that is humming with energy and possibility.

THE MOST EROTIC WAY OF

PREDICTING THE FUTURE 

IS BY CREATING IT.

you have chosen yourself in your entirety. you feel and endless erotic surge of creativity. you let your worth lovingly interrupt shadow.

every inch of you embraces truth & your heart protects your power.

you get to experience deep love and lifechanging sex without making anything happen.

you love the woman you get to be.

you are her. 

you walk into the room like god sent you. 

you look people right in the eye & you dare to love. freely.

you are a walking dagger. your hips sway & your words liberate curses.

leading feels like an aphrodisiac & surrender is your most intimate superpower.

utterly satiated & claimed. beyond.

I…

magine this..

it takes a powerful  woman

to trust that she doesn’t

need to make  it happen.

anyone can ‘manifest’ great sex and great love if they want it

the curriculum

no. 1 savage

leadership gets to feel like an aphrodisiac when it’s from the heart; not the hustle. cultivate unfuckwithable confidence & self-trust. befriend desire & unlock your radical, erotic poetry. become an instrument of self-validation & self-worth. learn how to dominate your life in all ways. integrate shadows of manipulation & control. reconcile with the masculine within. remember what it means to be a woman who chooses.

aka the leader | ignite & influence

no. 2 satiated

aka the lover | surrender & magnetise

empowerment, as in; can you soften against your own blade? cultivate agility of softness & strength. educate yourself in sexual self-sufficiency & somatic surrender. become your own muse. learn how to unfreeze in high-stake moments. romanticise yourself into the room when you want to fall madly in love with your life. integrate shadows of blame & avoidance. breakup with blame & burnout. reconcile with the feminine within.  

testimonials

“my experiences and connection with melissa includes taking part in a group program as well as one on one work. melissa is a primal poet, a masterful artist and a profoundly loving individual. Her essence and razor sharp clarity continually refreshes and inspires. She trusts herself and loves herself, so i trust her. She has opened up my chest, my throat, my heart and my womb. I love being continually reminded of the innocence, primality and ecstasy from which we come."
-bloodmoon:  dominatrix, escort & exotic dancer.
“melissa’s softness and vast, creative and intuitively always on the mark knowledge, makes her spaceholding quite exquisite. I joined many online and in person 1-1 and group journeys with her and it expanded so much connection towards myself; at a crucial time of my life. She is a foundation of my development into the esoteric, energetic and feminine arts.”
-ashley frost: CEO & anger therapist. 

what being a dominatrix taught me..……

 a dominatrix is a woman who is paid to create erotic scenes for a client that usually involve power exchange, violence & punishment. some of my deepest shadow-work has been  working as a dominatrix; i learnt something about masculinity, power & money that i will always regard as remarkable; 
i understood the hidden architecture of power that exists underneath every conversation & interaction; i found my voice. i fostered the ability to articulate my vision & then how to make that vision happen. i learnt how to unfreeze in high-stake & sometimes seriously dangerous situations. i was educated in the art of negotiation & how to effortlessly hold the room in the palm of my hand. 
however; in the wrong hands - being a dominatrix can also be just another way to abuse power. 
as a woman who experienced sexual trauma at the hands of men who did not know that they hated women; i unconsciously enjoyed punishing, blaming & hurting men -  i wasn't aware of how that was impacting the kind of men i was attracting or being attracted to. as a woman who never felt safe,  i unconsciously chose to date men who i could control; it was only when i could fully own this program in an embodied way that i could resolve it.
 

my intention with savage muse is to collate & distill my core learnings from my time as a domina, in conjuction with my vast range of experience in renegade wellness modalities & traditional tantra

into a digestible program comprising theory, discussion & dojo praxis. savage muse is a rare opportunity to learn the codes of a whore & translate them into wholistic access points of liberation - via a tapestry of neuroscience, nlp & embodiment. 

read more about me in my bio here

simply put: the egg doesn’t chase the sperm.

new studies show this; the egg has the final say on which sperm fertilizes it. even though the fastest and most capable sperms reach the ovum first, it is the egg that decides which sperm fertilizes it. 

to translate this into dating dynamics - a woman pursuing a lover goes against natural law. currently on this planet we are one of the rare species whose female spends so much energy trying to prove themselves to their potential partner. 

B

ecome the woman who chooses

this is where sexuality has become distorted. countless hours, days and weeks of an average woman’s life are spent on ‘manifesting’ her king when she really needs to be leading herself somewhere captivating with her physical and psychological freedom which can only be gained from deep sexual sovereignty.  

when we reclaim freedom and creativity in our erotic domain we relinquish the modern feminine urge to control, because we finally remember our natural faculty to magnetize.

we get to experience deep pleasure in all areas of life, without having ‘made’ it happen. 

payment options

  • education + embodiment + worldwide community.

    €480 payment in full

    or a payment plan of €250 x2.

    what you get:-

    📌6X live calls via zoom 

    📌3 months access to the learning portal

    with recorded meditations & integration resources.

    📌Access to a private discord community.

    📌sovereign handbook excerpt. 

    📌discount access to 1-1 sessions with melissa

    RSVP HERE

  • €666 payment in full or payment plan

    📌full access to the group online & IN PERSON program. 

    📌3X IN PERSON ONE-DAY WORKSHOPS

    📌6X live calls via zoom 

    RSVP HERE

    📌3 months access to the learning portal

    with recorded meditations & integration resources.

    Access to a private discord community.

    📌sovereign handbook excerpt. 

    📌discount access to 1-1 sessions with melissa 


testimonials

“over the past three years i got to experience melissa‘s multi-faceted body of work in various containers and settings from big communities to small masterminds; from months-long journeys to short term deep dives. each of them had their own unique flavour and medicine of greatest value — yet the 1-1 setting with melissa is a portal of its own. each session feels like drinking from the placenta the divine nectar of Truth + Love: rich, layered, delicious, bittersweet, nourishing for body, mind & soul. — being called forward, brought to my edges, truthful, expansive, fierce, alchemical. i am deeply grateful for her support and to walk alongside melissa on this path of re-membering."
-lena brandt: mentor & ceremonialist. 
“melissa’s spaces are intentional sanctuaries where truth and authenticity converge in a delicate dance. her gift is a unique blend of raw humanity and profound tenderness, crafted for courageous hearts who dare to be seen in their deepest longing. if you yearn to reconnect with your untamed truth and redefine the standards of love, this is your haven. through my work with her, both one-on-one and in group settings, i’ve quit a job that no longer served me to start my own business, and left a relationship that stifled my growth to find a new level of self-love and respect. she inspires agency and reminds us of the power of choice: evolve or remain. i feel deeply aligned with this and profoundly grateful”


- seville lives : leadership & embodiment guide.
“what an amazing, confronting, eye-opener experience: a container filled with beautiful and powerful femmes in different moments of our lives, but yet we were synchronized in a sense of worthiness and energy that I've never felt before. The work with melissa broke me in a way it was a pleasure to put me back on, to be reborn, and there's no going back. I owe to myself to be true to that. You gotta love Melissa for all the geeky, juice stuff she prepares to be used in an empathic, assertive way to guide you through the work. You know when you get this wave of creative, chaotic, erotic, "I can do it all" energy, and you don't know exactly what to do with it. Well for me this container gave me the tools to grab that ball of feminine powerful energy and aim it exactly where I WANT it without shame and enjoy it within me to be able to share it with others."
- bonnie bliss: founder & intimacy educator.
“i’ve had the deep honor to work in a 1:1 and group container with melissa. she's cracked me open in a ways I could have never imagined. before i even started my journey i found myself in one of her containers as a friend had invited me. i had an impulse to join not knowing what would manifest. 2 years later i’m in a 1:1 container with her as we excavate my authentic gifts, as i come into claiming my full self. not needing to be chosen by anyone other than myself. this is where the power lies. to be a woman fully claimed by her self. this has been some of the most deep and personal work i’ve ever done. i’ve shared truths, confessed, and came into parts of myself that i’ve shamed. i’m so grateful for Melissa to always cut through the patriarchal bullshit within me so that I can rise in my true feminine leadership.” 

- daniella nohemi: founder & neo emotional releases practitioner.
“i’ve worked with melissa in a number of ways - 1 on 1, in group, online and in person - and it is her skilled space holding and insightful knowledge that i find opens and transforms me so deeply. she has a rare ability to hold highly boundaried and brave spaces - that are also wild, free-flowing and ritualized - opening the possibility of new and daring codes to be expressed and explored. her commitment to being boldly loving and tenderly ruthless - reflects both shadow and light aspects of the feminine experience in the name of bringing illumination and empowerment.”
- katie bracher: CEO & founder, sauna master.
“when i came to melissa, i was at one of these low points in my life. she welcomed me with an incredible empathy and created a safe, supportive space where i could begin to work through my pain. her intuitive approach and profound wisdom were exactly what i needed to shift out of a victim mindset and start reclaiming my power. what i appreciate most about her is her ability to call out the truth—she doesn’t let you hide behind excuses, and that honesty is what truly propelled my growth. her gift for holding space is nothing short of magical, allowing me to explore the deepest parts of myself without judgment. attending her women’s retreat, participating in three of her group programs, and engaging in a six-month mentorship have greatly supported me in my process. i am eternally grateful for how she guided me toward a place of integrity, self-love, and empowerment.”


- aline magnier: senior creative producer & director, mentor, musician.

  • virtual

    • tuesday 1st of october | 20:00-21:30 CET | N° 1 | the savage woman

    • sunday 20th of October | 11:00-12:00 CET  |  Q+A session

    • tuesday 29th of october | 20:00 - 21:30 CET |  N° 2 | the satiated woman

    • sunday 3rd of november | 11:00-12:00 CET | Q+A session

    • tuesday 19th of november | closing call

    london

    • saturday 19th of October | 11:00-17:00  |  N° 1 | the savage woman

    • saturday 2nd of november | 11:00-17:00 |  N° 2 | the satiated woman

    • saturday 16th of november | 11:00-17:00 |  N° 3 | the sovereign woman

why now?

the world needs more bad girls who allow themselves to want.


we need more embodied & empowered women in positions of power

we need women who have become an instrument of validation leading us into the revolution.

we need women who have unfurled the rush out of their nervous system making important political choices for the collective.

what we need now, more than ever, is more women in power who know how to soften & be fully satiated

- so that their choices come from the heart *not from the hustle. 

  • Q. whats the difference between the in person sessions and the online sessions?

    The online and offline cohorts will be very different but complementary; the online work is educational & aims to give you tools to explore. The in person sessions are purely about exploring those tools. If you join online youll be highly equipped to explore in your own & with your own muses. If you only join in person; you might miss out on some of the juicy theory but you will get to explore some tools. We highly recommend doing the whole thing if you’re joining the in-person workshops as the online sessions will offer integration & a wider resources along with a consistent community to connect with. 



    Q. I can't join the live online sessions - will they be recorded & Is it essential that I show up-to the sessions LIVE or can I watch the replay?

    YES! All LIVE sessions will be available for replay for 3 months after the course & although it can be strong to be there in the session whilst its happening, I truly believe you can receive just as much by knowing you’re in the same process as other women. We will have our own discord network additionally - where you'll be able to connect with the other muses, ask Questions & organize your own sharing-circles & study groups to practice the tools provided & seek further support. 


    Is this a healing course or is it an educational course?

    It is both & neither - This is a program that is aimed at people who want to cultivate the craft of their unique erotic leadership & somatic surrender. What that means,is; although there may be opportunities for ‘healing’ to happen - it is not a space dedicated to engineer healing. 


    Do i need to have plenty of experience to join?

    We recommend a basic level of embodiment & self–awareness to joi; as we will not actively educate you how to be & remain in your body - we expect you to be able to self-regulate so that we can focus on expanding your range of expression. 


    Who is this course not recommended for? 

    If you have never embarked on shadow-work & embodiment - this is not the course for you. We will be exploring topics of sex & power that may trigger old wounds. If you are not equipped to self-regulate; this may not be a welcoming experience for you or your nervous system. 



    And what about refunds?

    In general, there are no refunds available - if a true & real emergency arises, please reach out to us via email to speak to us about refunds. Otherwise, once the course has started there will be no refunds available.


    Are there payment plans available? 

    Yes! I want you to be able to attend without it over-stretching you. We have a 3 month payment plan available upon request. Please email us to inquire as these are limited to first come first served. 


    Does my sexual identity and relationship style affect my ability to attend this course?

    This course is aimed at all beings who identify as a woman - trans, cisgender, intersex - all of you are welcome. However - I invite you to join us with the following humble & honest disclaimer - I will refer to the group as “women” & so i encourage you to practice your own sovereignty as to whether that feels good/not for you to join us. We will speak about masculinity and femininity throughout the course - & I may refer to heterosexual relational dynamics, However - as a pansexual & polyamorous woman myself - I fully welcome every relationship style and sexual oriententation here in this course where many people will come together from different walks in life.


    How much time & support will I actually get to have with Melissa Maya or her team?

    Melissa Maya will host every LIVE online call & in-person session those who purchase the ‘personalized’ 1-1 coaching package will get to have 1-1 support with Melissa. Melissa & the team will be holding-space in the discord group to respond to any questions throughout.